How I do what I do
- Rucsi Sarbu

- Sep 21
- 10 min read
I've been wanting to post these words for months, but every time I was about to, the circumstances of life distracted me. In hindsight, probably because, for the past 3-4 weeks, I've been questioning my own path and line of work. This job has been my bread and butter for the last decade or so, and this is actually the first time I started questioning my own role and assistance through my work in the collective changes.
Might it be the current global shift in energies and upheaval? Might it be the past decade of sessions that had me pondering forward? Either way, I needed to take a minute and understand not only what I've been offering in the past through my work, and where I'm intended to be at service in the future, but landing in clarity about what I provide now (2025 and going forward) and can add to in these moments of collective understanding of ONENESS.
For years I've been asked: “What do you actually do in a session? How does it work?”
And up until now, I didn't really have a straight answer (nor cared enough to find one). And honestly, how to explain something that just happens within and around me? Something that’s invisible to the naked human eye, and at the same time can't be put in a logical container?
Well, I’m not an advisor, a business coach, a therapist, or a fortune-teller in the classic sense. I might be a bit of all those, blended with the audacity to question AND stir the cosmic pot of energies, to get you to remember YOU and your part in the collective (again).
The reality is, my work can't be summed up into a snappy elevator pitch while giving it (or myself) justice. And who even thought of that being the best way to approach describing something that we care for and embody, unless it was about undermining it to something that brings profit, being the only measurement for labour. I'm going off on a rant here, will try to come back to the core of it.
My attempt here is to walk you through the service I currently offer, and you creating your own understanding of it. And after many attempts, I might finally have found a way to describe it so it feels clear (for my logical mind included), whether you’re new to this or we’ve journeyed together before.
A FEW DISCLAIMERS
This is MY way of working, shaped over years of practice to protect my sensitivity and nervous system while holding space for yours. It’s not the only way. It’s simply what has been shown as my skills, abilities, and way of conducting this type of work in current times.
Every psychic medium, intuitive, or energy worker has their own style, niche, and way of channeling. This has apparently become mine. When working with "these type of people" (a fun group of "magicians" I'm a proud member of), it’s all about the frequency we individually operate from, and whether we are right for one another.
I might make perfect sense to some. Others might find that I’m not vibing with them, neither in personality nor energy. Why it’s very important that you ALWAYS use your discernment when allowing anyone to access your energy field. Even me. Even upon referrals. And honestly, this should be applied in any area of your life.
Feel free to roam around my corner of the Universe, to sense whether I might be for you. No hard feelings if I’m not. I would rather you find the right person to assist you in your journey than have me potentially throw you off course. That’s not only the psychic in me speaking, but also my human-to-human care. Yet, if you find me vibing energetically with you and where you are going in life, then here I am.
WHAT I TUNE INTO
I don’t channel guides, angels, or other entities (though I honor those who do!). Instead, I connect with specific aspects of your being. I connect with and channel:
Your human blueprint: The original imprint of who you are beneath your stories and patterns, ancestral lineages, and what was intended with you being here in this moment in time and life. Like the 'reason(s)' you were born in this lifetime, your life assignments, the family you come from, etc.
Your unique soul pattern: The unique energy field that makes you, you. Often incorporating your current, past, and future incarnations. It's that part of you that is not limited to your body, your name, and ancestral lineage. It's your energy line.
Your higher self: The wisest part of you. The part that sees beyond illusions and limited immediate reality. It knows itself and what you truly carry within. It's a neutral place within you, filled with potential and inner peace. See it as the place where your human form and soul interconnect.
Your energetic thread in the greater ‘ONENESS’: Sometimes (if applicable for your situation), we get to see how your path (that unique combination of your higher self, your blueprint, and your energy line) threads to the ONENESS. Offering glimpses of how your journey weaves into the collective and where we are all headed.
See it as I’m an empath times a billion. I translate your being’s whispers into words your human self can react to and act on. I’m not always “nice” in the spiritual stereotype way. But, I’m kind, honest, and clear, with a dash of humor. I will not sugarcoat what your soul needs you to hear, but I will deliver it with just enough care and space for you to be with what is.
Sometimes, my directness might feel confronting to your mind or habits. If you are here, I trust it’s for a reason. My job is to bridge your sacred inner world with your outer life, balancing your human and soul so you can live with more presence and truth, and hopefully a bit more ease.
People often ask: “Does it work if we are not face-to-face?” Absolutely. Energy doesn’t care about distance or physical presence. Your energy field gets the same uninterrupted space to speak, and you receive the insights on your own timeline.
Whether live or remote, every session is intuitive, soul-led, and grounded in practical clarity. I don’t just “say things” and leave you at it. I tune in fully with my whole system and translate what’s showing up in the field of our session, so YOU can do the real work of integration. That’s where the change happens: in you. See it as, you are being the integrator, while I'm the bridge and stabilizer.
A CLARIFICATION FOR BUSINESSES
I see businesses, organizations, and institutions as their own living, breathing energetic entities, with a unique blueprint, energetic DNA, and 'soul', just like you. A company’s got its own energy line, its own reasons for existing in this wild collective we’re all part of, and I'm often being asked to tune into its core, mission, and impact.
It’s about getting clear on what your company is meant to do, who/what it's to consist of and who it’s meant to serve, and how it weaves into these transformative 2025 vibes and beyond. Whether it’s sharpening your strategic decisions, sorting out team chaos, or fine-tuning your leadership, my assistance consists of aligning your vision with the deeper currents of your company’s energetic blueprint in relation to the collective. This is the same intuitive process I describe below, just tailored to the energetic DNA of your organization. So, feel free to read on with that lens, whether you’re here for yourself or your business’s soul.
So, here is what actually happens when you have booked a session:

BEFORE THE SESSION
About 15-20 minutes before we connect (or before I begin a written/recorded session), I sit with your first name and energy to:
Receive the current “agenda” from your higher self, which might differ from your questions (but usually overlaps).
Build an energetic bridge between us, where your human can feel safe to let go of control/fear and allow insights to come through.
Protect my own energy and nervous system to steer clear.
Check for anything mirroring my own path and set it aside to hold YOUR space cleanly.
I start seeing images, hearing phrases, or feeling your emotions as if they’re mine. Your essence is already speaking through me before we even begin. I only access what your higher self allows, with consent given by you booking a session. Often these are put onto a piece of paper ready for you to see when we begin our session.
DURING THE SESSION
We step into a shared energetic space. A still point outside time, free from human conditioning or judgment. It's like hitting a Reset button or finding Ground Zero for your being, where you can meet yourself as you are.
You bring your questions, longings, or confusions. I bring my presence and my ability to share what is shown to me in that moment, while listening deeply and holding space.
This is where I take myself (my human self (mind), my body, and my soul energy) out of the equation to not directly interfere. But I’m always on stand-by to step in should any of the intuitive insights make your human react intensely. Otherwise, I'm not really present in the conversation, which is why I often don’t remember our sessions afterward.
This is also the space where your human self and body, take a back seat to your energy field being channeled through my being. It might feel freeing and timeless during the session, but trippy afterward, once your human self catches up with the aftermath of the session, based on some of the feedback I have been given.
You see, several things happen under the surface simultaneously while I deliver your intuitive insights:
I ensure your human self feels safe to let insights rise.
As messages come through, I softly track your mind and body to make sure they land clearly, giving space for all emotions to surface.
If something feels heavy/off/tough to process, I pause, guide you through it, or approach it from different angles until it clicks.
I keep the channel open while staying grounded, so our energies do not tangle.
At the end, I make sure you’re anchored in your human again, so you leave feeling clear, not disoriented, beyond what is needed for your transformation.
Sessions can be light, emotional, or confronting (often all at once). You can ask about others, as long as they’re relevant to your path and journey ahead. I read them through your field, hence often navigating multiple energies at once (I used to call this being energetically 'gangbanged,' pardon my French 😅).
The goal? Clarity. Relief. A spark. An aim to remind you of what matters so you can move forward with truth and more confidence in your step.
AFTER THE SESSION
Once we part (whether in person or online), I stay in the field for about 10 to 15 minutes to clear, ground, and release what I have held. It’s like an energetic shower, ensuring nothing lingers for either of us. The minute I leave your energy, I don’t bring anything with me. This reset is why I build buffers between sessions. It keeps the energy clean and sustainable, so I can show up fully for every session.
This entire process (before, during, and after) is what you are investing in. It’s not just the time we spend together. It’s the energy, intention, and care I bring to hold space for your soul’s truth.
MY JOB IS JUST TO BE A VESSEL
Whether we are connecting in person, over video, or through a written or recorded session, my approach is the same. Some think shorter sessions are “lighter,” but energy doesn’t work on human clocks. Whether I’m in your field for 15 minutes or 90 minutes, it’s the same deep dive into your energy.
Yet, beyond 90 minutes, my human body often starts waving yellow flags. You might notice me fidgeting, stretching, or even showing a tic or two. This is my nervous system saying: “Hey Rucsi, time to ground back into your own body". This is because my human feels the weight of the energy work.
This is also why I’m careful about how I approach my work and sessions, as I need to show up as a grounded human and soul in EVERY session. While also being able to still be a quirky human, and sometimes just a messy soul in a hoodie, judging myself for eating Ben & Jerry’s while ordering takeout daal (again).
The thing is, I’ve seen so many gifted practitioners and energy workers burn out, losing their spark (and some even beyond their human bodily repair) because they lost themselves in the work, forgetting they too are humans and not intended to be constant saviors or divine tools for spiritual work. I’m committed to keeping my love for this work alive, knowing my limits, so I can every single time give YOU the best of all of me.
I truly love this work, but it took time to get here. I had to stop overthinking it and overgiving or trying to “carry” the healing for others. I learned it’s not about fixing anyone or performing magic tricks like I'm at a Medieval Fair or a rare circus act.
It’s about being a clear vessel and showing up with presence and reverence, with just enough space for your individual soul to rise and move, without any of us getting in the way of the magic it can bring forward.
SO... WHAT IS THIS WORK?
It’s not a reading, a performance, a transaction, or a quick fix. It’s a realignment. A space in time where your soul gets to speak, and you get to remember what it’s been trying to say (in any given area of your life). It’s a sacred pause at your Ground Zero to hit Reset and realign with your path.
Some common misunderstandings I've met over the years:
Is this like therapy? Not quite, but for some it’s used as such. Many find it deeply supportive, like a continuous soul-level check-in. Some come regularly, others when life feels big and overwhelming. It depends on your journey and personality type.
Are you predicting my future? I sort of do. I tune into energetic potentials (your best and intended outcomes/highest timeline), but these are not always fixed outcomes. While most are, your free will still can shape what happens next. The more aligned you are to your inner knowing, the clearer those potentials become, and the less free will needs to be at play.
Will it feel ‘weird’? It sometimes does. It might stir emotions or feel uncomfortable as you face new perspectives and truths. It's also familiar, like a deep remembering or “coming home.” If you’re at peace with your vulnerability, it can even feel liberating and like being able to breathe again.
What is important for me to emphasize is, this work isn’t for everyone. But it’s inviting you to join a place where you can come as you are, and we keep it real and safe. If it’s calling you, even if you’re not sure why, YOU will feel it.
To my current and past clients: thank you for trusting me to hold space for you. I’m honored to keep sharing this work with you.
To new souls: if this sparks something in you, there are a few ways to dip your toes into this type of assistance; sessions that fit where you are at in your life and circumstances.
I look forward to connecting, whether it’s a reunion or a first meeting.
/Rucsi





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